Tag Archive: living your best life

You Hold the Keys to Your Success

What we Seek

Key, Successful, Hanger, DesignYou hold the keys to your success. We all seek after that successful life and yes, some of us are looking in the right places for it. Sometimes, we seek after that “dream” job because we believe it will give us success. Other times, we seek after that house, car, or even a partner because we have convinced ourselves that it will bring us the success we are seeking. How about money? Too many of us believe that, if we had more money we would have a successful life. There isn’t anything wrong with seeking or having any of these items. What is wrong is believing that by seeking and acquiring them they will make you successful.

What’s Holding You Back from Success?

Do you know the real holdback to the successful life you are searching for is you? Yes, you are the only one holding you back as only you can bring this success to yourself. Remember, you hold the keys to your success.

Know Your Purpose and Find Success

I offer to you that, you were made with a purpose because it was deposited in you as seeds. All before you arrived on the planet.  Your purpose is your role in this big picture called life. You ask, how do I know my purpose? Well, it is related to the things that you are drawn to. The things that you enjoy doing. Your success lies within your purpose and you must find it. When you are operating within your purpose, you are efficient, in the ebb and flow of your life and things seem to fall in place.

Let me tell you that finding this purpose is not always an easy thing to do. However, like a seed you plant, it goes through a process to bear fruits. It sprouts, develops into a plant, and eventually bear fruits. So are you on this Best Life journey for purpose and success. You may be in your sprouting stage and not your fruit stage. Pay attention to your details and become aware of your stage. This awareness will lessen your frustrations, as you will know where you are in your process to your purpose. Remember, you hold the keys to your success.

I implore you to pay attention. Find your purpose and find your successful life.

Tips to Conquer Fear in the Covid-19 Season

Is fear crippling you?  Do you feel afraid of the news you are hearing about COVID-19? You are not aA book that informs you about fearlone. Fear is one of the most crippling emotions and can kill you if you don’t become aware.  While we are in the “Stay at home Order,” let’s take control of our minds and how we see fear and deal with it. We don’t have to be stapped with fear in the COVID-19 season.

What is Fear

You can’t have doubt in the moment. When fear steps into your life, you must now deal with it in such a way that you become the winner. Fear is False Expectations Appearing Real. I want you to remember that.

Why Do We Fear and How it Manifests

When things happen and you believe that you have lost control or you have lost hope, that’s when fear can come upon you. Your heart races. Your palms sweat, and your breaths are shallow. Everything in your body feels like it’s tightening and you probably feel like you going to die because fear is being manifested.

How to Conquer Fear

On the Alphabet Circle Journey, which is a best life practice, fear is one of the emotions we bring awareness to, so we can deal with it in such a way that it never wants to come back. You must have a new mindset to conquer fear. So when fear visits with you, I want you to  take long deep breaths and  then do the following;

  1. Acknowledge fear and speak to it, “Fear, I know you are here but today is the wrong day.”
  2. Next, tell fear, “You have no power over me.” Repeat this three times.
  3. Next, repeat three times,  “I am in control of my life.”
  4. Now empower yourself by saying, “I have the spirit of power and love inside me and you fear cannot shake that.” Do this three times.
  5. Next say to fear, “I choose not to be afraid as I am Love. I embody Love.”
  6. Take a few deep breaths and relax.

Do this exercise as many times as you need to, or until you feel safe. For additional information and things you can do please get a copy of  my book at Amazon

Please leave me a comment to let me know how this worked for you and let me know where you are on your fear journey.

Introduction to The Alphabet Circle™ -Life is Journey

The Alphabet Circle™-Life is a Journey postulates, life happens and it happens for the best of us. Join me on this best life journey where we live in the present moment and at a higher level of consciousness. The Alphabet Circle Journey is about relationships and how they come and go from your Alphabet Circle. Every relationship shows up to help you achieve something on your way to your purpose and when its mission is complete it leaves. In this Best Life concept we do not get upset because we understand that every relationship is finite.

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Life Gave Me Lemons and Guess What I Did?

Life gave me lemons! I pondered what it meant for my life. Why, Oh Why, I asked. With no time to loose, I  rolled up my sleeves  and reminded myself, I was on my  Alphabet Circle Journey™ and living my best life. Life had presented lemons, now what happens? You see, lemons can be a good thing or a bad thing, depending on your perspective.  I chose not to see lemon as the old car that was bought and the engine would not start. No way! My engine had to start. Life gave me lemons, but I was going to do something positive with it.

My Lemons Made Tea

I made hot lemon teaWith a winning mindset, I decided to make lemon tea, as I am very fond of hot teas. You see, raised in a system conquered by the English, hot tea became a part of who I am.  Into a teapot of boiling water, I squeezed my lemons after rolling them on the table with the palm of my hands, so as to make sure all the juice would be extracted. Tea represents for me, something beautiful and good. It represents, good morning! The beauty of new dawn  with great anticipation of the sun coming soon upon the horizon. Life gave me lemons and now I have tea.

Why I Made Lemonade with my Lemons

As the days rolled on, I grew thirsty. I needed to get a cold drink to quench such a thirst. Well, I had lemons and lots of them. I resorted to what I know very well to do. I made a nice tart drink of Lemonade. Not just a glass but a jug of it. Because I had so many lemons that this life had thrown at me, I could afford to splurge on the lemonade, and I made the best of it. I made sweetened and unsweetened so as to submit to my taste buds. So, here I was having hot and or cold lemonade depending on which was my preference at the time of drinking. I learned to love this lemonade because I knew it was my answer to my situation. My lemons became lemonade and I loved it. I change what could have been a bad situation with action. What have you done with your lemons?

Life gave me lemons and I made lemonade

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Connecting to your truth River

RIver pic“Be sober at all times,” writes the great biblical scholar Paul. What is this sobriety that he is talking about? It is connecting to your truth River. It is about being present, aware and at a level of consciousness  that you can Create at your highest level.

Just imagine a river with enormous amounts of water carrying its contents knocking, as it makes it way to the eventual ocean. The contents are knocking because they are bumping into each other or the riverbed itself. And, if you listen to the noise of the river, its like a quarrel among its contents. You know why? They all don’t belong there, but they have found themselves in the same situation. This is the same with the stuff in your life. They are colliding with each other at times. As the rocks, pebbles, and debris bump into each other, the total noise depends on the volume of water. Less volume, the higher the decibels, and louder the noise.

So is your connection to the truth River (truth here means true self). When you are not fully connected to your truth river, there is a lot of background noise, and thus, a lot of distraction because your River volume is low. You are not fully connected, so you are not committed to the connection. The rocks and pebbles in your life are rolling along at very high decibels. The sounds are very audible to you at the human level, drowning out all else that is happening around you. This can manifest as the noises in your head. They can be audible to other folks on your Alphabet Circle™ and manifested in your demeanor. They can also be just other things that you carry along your life journey.

Just as the river ends in the ocean, where it gets rid of its contents, the same is true for the soul.  When you connect to this river of truth and the volume is right, the contents will flow until the River’s end. Your River’s end is where you resolve your issues or matters on the Alphabet Circle—your life journey. You can get rid of these by looking within, and making a soul-to-soul bond that supports awareness, consciousness, and enlightenment.

Road Closed to Best Life

Road Closed

Road Closed

Road Closed—Is  this sign hanging on your  personal life?  Is your demeanor saying “road closed?” Sometimes we close the road to living our best lives without even knowing it. When this happens it prevents you from living your best life which is  your right.

At times we think in our minds that we have done everything we know to experience this best life, but see no manifestations. You ask,  why is it not happening for you?

The authorities placed this sign to warn you that this particular road is currently not in use due to some danger.  But, it does not matter the reason for it. The fact is, you cannot use this road and you are warned. Note that, the authorities have the power to do this. Similarly, you have the power to display or remove such a sign from your life journey because you are the authority over your best life.

When you display the “Road Closed” sign, you are telling others that they cannot enter your life.  Behind, this sign in the picture is a broken bridge, that  the authorities are protecting you from. In your case, do you understand why you are displaying the sign? It is for some sort of protection from your mind’s eye— consciously or subconsciously. Pause and have a conversation with self to figure out why. Work on removing this sign from your life so that you can invite those who need to be with you on the journey to enter.

Are there “Road Closed” signs on display in your life? Leave me a comment to let me know.