Relationships are finite. Yes, they are interactions with a life span, so enjoy them. However, no one knows their duration, so I want you embrace every interaction. Show up and be present. The finiteness of it allows you to focus on the now, and bask in it. Feel your energy levels soar and happiness just bubbles up from within you because you are present. You are now in unison with the universe. You are in the ebb and flow of the Alphabet Circle ™.
Enjoy all your relationships without your focus being on their life span. What’s important, is to remember to enjoy them while they last. Sometimes, at the conscious level you never have a clear reason why some relationships end. However, I want you to know that they were meant to end when they did. You are on the Alphabet Circle™ where Life is a Journey. Don’t pine over it. Yes, you will miss it, but be open for the next one that is coming along. Don’t block the new relationship by focusing on the one that just ended and has served its purpose.
I caution you to not get attached to your interactions in such a way that you are destroyed upon their end. I am saying to be fully present, but do recognize that none of these relationships are eternal. Do not project what you would like it to be. You are setting yourself up for disappointment. Stay with what it is. Live your life boldly and with purpose.
Leave me a comment to let me know about your relationships that ended and left you wondering.
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