Tag Archive: Chosen Life

Your Life is a Magnet

Your life is a magnet. Yes, it is. You may not have thought of your life in this way, but it attracts and repels. Yes, this is what a magnet does. We learn in physics that magnetism is;

“a physical phenomenon produced by the motion of electric charge, resulting in attractive and repulsive forces between objects.”

Well, this is precisely what happens in your personal space. The people who need to be in your life will be attracted to your life, and the people who do not belong in your life will be repelled. You ask, how is that possible? There is a part of you call your soul, and this thing is smart by design. Your soul searches out the other person and gives you a feeling or sensation about that individual.  The soul examines the aura of the person.

What you need to know is to be aware that your life is a magnet and it carries out its job to attract or discharge folks. Sometimes without you consciously knowing. When we live on  The Alphabet Circle Journey, we learn that our awareness is heightened and we are in tune with our souls. We embrace those who show up, and we accept those who have been repelled.

So, how do you deal with the magnet of your life? You pay attention. You embrace your highs and your lows. Know that all things happen in your life for a reason. Don’t panic when things happen. Folks in your life will either stay, embrace you or help you or they will move on. Both options are necessary for your growth.

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Can we truly manage time?

Can we truly manage time?  Time is the present so the question begs, is it false thinking to say we can mange Time?  Let me ask the question another way. Can we manage the Present? I would like you to ponder  this. If we show up in the experience of “time” and are open to what the experience offers, do we need to worry about managing?

No one can manage time.  Time is infinite and not something to be managed. However, you can manage what you do. Our focus should be on  what we are doing in the present and how we want to show up in each experience?  Think of this, the element “Time” that we worry about so much is chugging along each day doing what it does. It is your choice to choose Time by being Present.  Remember, you are your best you when you show up in the Present.

Your awareness to the Present moment will help you to execute your tasks at maximum potential. This brings the Best You.

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Book Trailer_ The Alphabet Circle Journey

According to author and scientist Maxine Wright-Walters, Ph.D., most relationships will eventually come to an end. In her new book, “The Alphabet Circle Journey: Living Your Best Life” (published by Balboa Press), Wright-Walters draws a parallel between the laws of chemistry and human relationships to offer her theory on how and why relationships form and for what reasons they end. The book is available for purchase at Amazon

She contends that one must understand and come to terms with the cycle of relationships in order to enjoy a peaceful, fulfilling life. Starting each chapter with a letter of the alphabet, Wright-Walters uses metaphors to help readers understand human behavior. “The Alphabet Circle Journey” provides readers with insights into developing the skills to understand the specific reasons for the end of relationships. And, it offers tools for accepting when relationships come to an end.

The author also shares anecdotes to bring to life the tools presented in the book. “Life is about relationships, and all relationships have a time period on them,” says Wright-Walters.

“No one knows the time, but know that relationships form and end for a reason. When a relationship ends, the individual needs to reflect on the challenges that the relationship presented to them as a lesson to learn and grow from. This will ensure that each one can live an exciting life and learn from the interactions on his or her own journey.”

False Expectation Appearing Real

fear3Are you experiencing, FEAR— False Expectation Appearing Real?  Fear is a powerful emotion and can have a devastating effect upon its victim. I want to tell you that there is a place in your life that we will call the Fear Zone. When you enter this zone, it does not matter why, you will experience fear.  In that moment you seem not to be able to focus on anything other than the False Expectation Appearing Real. Physically, for some, your palms sweat, your heart races and for others you tremble.  My encouragement today is for you to stay away from that zone.

Sometimes we go to the Fear Zone because we create expected results. Note what I am saying to you. We create the results we expect and think what it will be for a particular situation, and because we do not anticipate those results to be good, we tremble with fear. Other times we visit this zone because of fear of the unknown. We do not know what to expect and we are in fear. The fear of dying would be an example. On our Best Life journey, we must be aware of the Fear Zone.

If not dealt with, fear can be a crippling emotion. For the person experiencing this fear, it seems real. For those of you who have a FEAR experience, you know exactly what I mean by this. Regardless of what I am telling you here, in the experience of fear, it can be different if not managed.

How then do you deal with this? If possible, stay away from the Fear Zone by assuring yourself that there is not anything to be afraid of. But for those who enter, tell yourself  and believe that the experience will come to you and you will ride it out. Know that you will consciously walk through the experience as it unfolds—be open and embrace it. Live your Best Life, Your Chosen Life.

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Doubt Can Destroy Self

doubt can destroy selfDoubt can destroy self. It is  a very powerful word and you should be aware of that. The action of doubt can lead you into dark places. It  can also lead you to do nothing because you do not have the courage to override the thought of it.

When you doubt, you are unsure. However, it comes with some amount of fear experience. In some instances the fear can cripple you.  Doubt is preventing many of us from doing simple things like getting a job or just going out and having a good time.

Now you ask, how do I get beyond doubt.  I want to tell you that you should keep looking forward and through the windshield of life. Keep doubt so far back, that you can only view it in the rear view mirror of your life. You must self talk to not be entwined by it. Tell yourself you have the courage to override it by letting self know “You can do this.” At first you probably won’t feel like anything in your space is changing, but keep telling yourself. Over time, you will feel the atmosphere  around you change and your confidence starts to build. This happens because you  are speaking life changing words to yourself. You are now believing these words and it shows. The best person to do this is you.

You will notice that your confidence booms and this is always exciting. If, you have to look in your rear view mirror and you see doubt back there, remember it is in the rear because you passed it. But, to ensure that your mind don’t go back to embracing it, you must repeat  your self talk. Do this every time you feel the word doubt greeting you. Cripple it and live your best life. Your Chosen Life.

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